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A Kaleidoscopic View of the Therapeutic Process

I sometimes imagine that our lives are structured in a similar style to a Kaleidoscope, where one finds a variety of objects of differing shape and colour which can be moved around and re-configured. This can be compared with our life experiences which build and develop over time. Some can tend to get “stuck” in…

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Dynamics of Intimate Engagement : Relating, Trance & Role

          “Life is a daring adventure, or nothing.”  – Helen Keller Relating, Trance and Role are the three aspects of our relationship style thatyou want to be able to identify in yourself and your potential partner. Relating focuses on the “we” in your interactions. It can include communicating, making eye contact…

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Finding our way home: the purpose of therapy

“I believe that we are each working towards unfolding our truth, moving towards a deeper connection with our essence: either slowly or fast, through conflict or meditation, through illness or relationship, or whatever presents itself in our lives.These are the tools for our transformation. Quantum Physics shows us in “field theory” that everything is much…

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5 Obstacles to Erotic Vitality for Men

1. Religious Repressive Sex-Negative Culture Roman & Greek cultures were significantly more sex-positive and erotically expressive than the Judeo-Christian culture in which we have been immersed. Whether you believe in these moral principles or have found an alternative narrative, they remain a cornerstone of our identity. It is important for each of us to explore…

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