Sexuality
Pointers for Sexual-Spiritual Practice by Barnaby Barratt Ph.D.
“Lovemaking – whether alone, with a stranger, with a partner we believe we know well, with a group, or with the trees, the skies, the mountains and the oceans – is always consensual, mutual, wholly present, ethical, and expressive of our one heart.” I was flying high in the sky on my way to my…
Read More3 Approaches to Erotic Engagement: Relating, Trance, Role
Did you ever have the most amazing sex and then find your partner was disappointed because you just “went for it” and didn’t look at them? This can be the cause of tension,conflict and even break-up, when the real issue is the differing ways we are oriented regarding relationship. Relating, Trance and Role are the…
Read MoreA Sex-Positive Approach to Counselling
Esther Perel : In Search of Erotic Intelligence
Sex as a jam session – Educational video by Karen Chan
Sex Jam – Great video shifting our relationship with sexual exploration
Read MoreSex Positive Counselling
Article on Sexuality published in Counselling Australia Spring 2017
Read MoreIndigenous Male Fertility Rites
There is an African tribe which has a ritual where in which the men gather in sacred ritual space and dry hump the earth and masturbate as a group. It is a fertility rite, which links them both as an erotic brotherhood and connects their erotic lives with the rhythms of nature. Regrettably much…
Read MoreSexuality as Social Research
Online Presentation to University course on Sexuality My subject is Sexuality as Social Research Imagine your next pick-up line being, “I have some homework from my university course. Would you be willing to help me with some ‘social research’?”…or slowing down your more habitual sex practice to ask,”So what happens if I apply a little…
Read More5 Obstacles to Erotic Vitality for Men
1. Religious Repressive Sex-Negative Culture Roman & Greek cultures were significantly more sex-positive and erotically expressive than the Judeo-Christian culture in which we have been immersed. Whether you believe in these moral principles or have found an alternative narrative, they remain a cornerstone of our identity. It is important for each of us to explore…
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